Friday, October 17, 2025

We Knew, and Lost, a Giant

Shabbat Table Talk from the desk of Rabbi Alexander Seinfeld
October 17-18, 2025 • 26 Tishrei 5786 • Bereishis (Gen 1-6).


Rav-HauerThe joy of Simchat Torah on Wednesday turned to sadness Wednesday night when word spread of the sudden passing of Rav Moshe Hauer ztzl, aged 60.

He died on Monday night during the Festival and his righteous wife/widow 
gave strict orders that it be kept a secret in order not to diminish the community's celebration.

A Baltimore funeral was hastily organized for Thursday morning in order to enable burial in Israel before Shabbat. 


Whatever I have to share will pale in comparison to what his regular congregants and students will say. His shul was a mere 10 minute walk from our home and had many opportunities to hear him speak with great depth and always with subtle humor.

What I would like to share today is a small but significant personal interaction - a 1-on-1 meeting in his office nine years ago.

I was deep in the R&D phase of the Torah Health and Wellness project.

I requested the meeting in order to ask two things:

1. Would the Rav allow me to list him in the "Current Leadership" chapter as someone who tries to eat healthily and exercise?

2. Does he have any suggestions or guidance to help the project achieve its goals?


To the first answer, he responded - without hesitation - Yes. He immediately understood the need for leaders like himself to publicly model this mitzvah in which so many are struggling (or not even trying). 

You'll find his listing on p. 341 of Body & Soul.

(There you might notice that during the seven years between our meeting and going to press, Rav Hauer left the synagogue position in order to take the helm of the global OU organization.)

To the second answer, he gave me a number of important suggestions, not the least of which was to connect with someone named Daniel Grove, MD.

In case you don't recognize that name, he's my co-author.


The fact that I was neither a member of his shul nor a regular attendee of his classes underscores the kind of person Rav Hauer was. He was there for literally anyone who asked for help.

(Here is one eulogy that is just the tip of a very large iceberg.)

He apparently took the hostage crisis very, very deeply and personally, and many have wondered if their release on Monday had anything to do with the Rav's petira on Monday night.

(If you click on his image above, you'll see a 3-minute video that illustrates how he felt about the suffering of people he had never met.)

Rav Hauer stood physically, intellectually, and morally taller than most; the Jewish People have lost a giant.

May his family be comforted.



Shabbat Shalom


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Shabbat Table Talk from the desk of Rabbi Alexander Seinfeld
September 26-27, 2025 • 5 Tishrei 5786 • Vayeitzei (Deut 31).


strikehotHappy New Year!

Wait, aren't we past New Year? Aren't the High Holidays in the rearview mirror?

If you think about it, everything we do on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur is pure lip service.

Literally.

And there's nothing wrong with lip service. But actions speak louder than words, to coin a phrase.

What are you going to do TODAY to put your proverbial money where your mouth is?

Ready to do one extra mitzvah, to show God (or at least yourself) that RH and YK actually meant something to you and wasn't merely lip service?

There are so many mitzvot to choose from.

Doing one extra one today would be BRONZE.

Doing an extra one a day for a month would be SILVER.

Committing to an extra one a day (or a month) for a year would be GOLD.

Please watch my new video and then decide: BRONZESILVER, or GOLD

Today's the day to make it REAL. Don't wait. Strike while the iron is HOT!



Shabbat Shalom

and Happy Sukkot!



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