Table Talk from the desk of Rabbi Alexander Seinfeld
April 26-27, 2024 • 19 Nissan 5784 • Pesach (Lev 13-15).
The goal of this blog is to bring the fifth child to the Shabbat table.
One of the most familiar motifs of the Pesach Seder is the number four:
But there's one small problem with all these interpretations: according to Rambam (Maimonides), there were originally five questions. And according to Rabbi Tarfon there are supposed to be five cups of wine. Indeed, we follow the Rambam and pour a fifth cup "for Elijah" although we don't drink it.
So that's two of the fours. But what about our third set of four:
Is it possible that there is also a fifth child?
The easy answer is: Sure, that's the one who didn't show up to Seder.
Four Cups of Wine
Four Questions
Four Children
There are numerous interpretations of this number, with layers of Biblical and mystical meaning.Four Children
But there's one small problem with all these interpretations: according to Rambam (Maimonides), there were originally five questions. And according to Rabbi Tarfon there are supposed to be five cups of wine. Indeed, we follow the Rambam and pour a fifth cup "for Elijah" although we don't drink it.
So that's two of the fours. But what about our third set of four:
Is it possible that there is also a fifth child?
The easy answer is: Sure, that's the one who didn't show up to Seder.
But there is another approach to the Four Children that has been mentioned by commentators:
Now I would like to add one small idea. Each of us has a bit of each child in us. Sometimes we're the wise child who wants to know the details of how to live a meaningful life. Sometimes we're the simple child who simply asks, "Why?" Sometimes we're the too-young child who simply needs to be told. And yes, sometimes we're the wicked child who puts himself outside of the community.
The wicked child is the one who says, "I'm Jewish enough, I don't want to do any more than I'm doing right now, that's for others to do."
Whenever we're in such a mindset, we need our "teeth knocked out" - we need to be told, "No, you are as much a part of the Jewish People as any other Jew - time to step up to the plate. Time to pull your weight. Time to learn a little Torah. Time to start giving tzedakah. The Torah belongs to you as much as as it belongs to anyone else; and your Torah and mitzvos matter as much as anyone else's."
Two weeks ago, we all witnessed an open miracle when Iran launched its long-avowed attempt to attack Israel. This week our enemies brought major universities to their knees in order to broadcast their hatred. What's next? What will it take to wake up this sleeping giant of a Jewish People? Isn't the writing on the wall?
Fun fact: "The writing is on the wall" is a Biblical expression. (I mean our Bible, not theirs.) How many Jews that you know know this? How many can name the book of Tanach where it's found?
When you decide to become the Fifth Child, you're drinking from the Fifth Cup.
Something to think about as you chew matzah and eschew chametz.
Happy Pesach and
Shabbat Shalom
This post originally appeared on the Times of Israel.
The gematria (numerical value) of rasha (רשע – wicked one) is 570 and of sheinav (שניו – his teeth) is 366. When we "knock out his teeth" — i.e., we subtract 366 from 570 — we are left with 204, which is the gematria of tzaddik (צדיק – righteous one).
In other words, the goal of responding to the Second Child is not to win the argument — it’s to help him become the righteous child that he has the potential to be.
Now I would like to add one small idea. Each of us has a bit of each child in us. Sometimes we're the wise child who wants to know the details of how to live a meaningful life. Sometimes we're the simple child who simply asks, "Why?" Sometimes we're the too-young child who simply needs to be told. And yes, sometimes we're the wicked child who puts himself outside of the community.
The wicked child is the one who says, "I'm Jewish enough, I don't want to do any more than I'm doing right now, that's for others to do."
Whenever we're in such a mindset, we need our "teeth knocked out" - we need to be told, "No, you are as much a part of the Jewish People as any other Jew - time to step up to the plate. Time to pull your weight. Time to learn a little Torah. Time to start giving tzedakah. The Torah belongs to you as much as as it belongs to anyone else; and your Torah and mitzvos matter as much as anyone else's."
Two weeks ago, we all witnessed an open miracle when Iran launched its long-avowed attempt to attack Israel. This week our enemies brought major universities to their knees in order to broadcast their hatred. What's next? What will it take to wake up this sleeping giant of a Jewish People? Isn't the writing on the wall?
Fun fact: "The writing is on the wall" is a Biblical expression. (I mean our Bible, not theirs.) How many Jews that you know know this? How many can name the book of Tanach where it's found?
When you decide to become the Fifth Child, you're drinking from the Fifth Cup.
Something to think about as you chew matzah and eschew chametz.
Happy Pesach and
Shabbat Shalom
This post originally appeared on the Times of Israel.
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